Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.

 

Love: I love you, because you are you… 

… that is, you fall in love not with certain characteristics or abilities of the other one, but with the one who owns those features.

 

However, there are love caricatures…

 

• love as curiosity

• love as relaxation, leisure, pastime

• love as sex, sexuality, sexual activity

• love as obeying the rules

• love as skill, performance, proficiency

• love as rivalry and battlefield

• love as control, constraint, chaining up

• love as reproduction of the species

• love as politeness, gratitude, indebtedness

• love as self-esteem confirmation

• love as logical consequence

• love as business interest

• love as leveling

• love as punishment

• love as the rescuing solution

• love as desire, attraction, lust

• love at any cost

• love as healing, rehabilitation, playing the doctor

• love as generosity, charity by an charitable organization

• love as an educational institute.